Refuse Etiquette In Other People'S Good Intentions
In interpersonal communication, we always encounter some difficult things. For example, some classmates invite you to play outside, but you can't go along with other things; someone gives you a gift, it's hard to accept; your parents do something for you, but you don't want your parents to do it for you. Sometimes, we have to use the declined language in the face of this "difficult problem".
People do not want their wishes to be rejected. The other party's categorical "no" word is more traumatic. Therefore, we should pay special attention to politeness and propriety in declining language.
Thank you for your kindness. If the other person sends an invitation to play, or gives a gift, etc., and you need to decline for some reason, you should praise and thank the other party for your warm and friendly expression, and express your great pleasure in accepting this feeling. You are very concerned about me. You have my heart. " "Thank you for your kindness!" In this way, even if you are rejected, you will still feel that you are a reasonable person, because you understand his good intentions.
Sincere apology. "I'm sorry to disappoint you!" "I'm sorry, but I really can't..." "Please forgive me..." These words are by no means dispensable. Without it, it will make you look arrogant and unkind. Therefore, it is very necessary to apologize for not satisfying each other's wishes.
Find the right excuse. It is not impolite to make excuses to refuse each other.
In fact, excuses are essential in life. In many cases, it is not easy to explain the reason to refuse a request of the other party, and it is not convenient to say anything to the other party. It is also necessary to find the right excuse (or "alibi") to avoid the request of the other party by reason that is not justified.
For example, you don't like to play with a certain student, but he insists on pulling you to play, and you have no reason to refuse. You might as well find an excuse and say, "sorry, my mother told me to go home earlier." This excuse not only achieves the purpose of rejection, but also does not hurt his self-esteem.
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