The Way To Survive In The Office: Taboo In Conversation

Colleagues are working partners. It is impossible to ask them to be tolerant and considerate like your parents, brothers and sisters.

In many cases, it is better for colleagues to maintain an equal and courteous partnership.

You should know that some words should not be said in the office, and some things should not be known to others.

1. does your family background have a big impact on your work?

2. is your relationship with some relatives or friends unsuitable for others to know?

3. does your history affect other people's evaluation of your moral character?

4. are some of your distinctive ideas touching some sensitive nerves?

5. is your lifestyle inconsistent with tradition?

6. can your private relationship with your boss become an open secret?

7. when you expose yourself to some private sources on the top of the company, will it bring you obstacles or benefits?

As a professional person, all kinds of personal information, such as age, education, experience, love and marital status, should be classified into two categories: "open" and "privacy".

Privacy is also a relative concept. The same thing is innocuous in an environment. Changing an environment can be very sensitive and protect oneself from safety.

All of these listed above belong to your privacy category.

1. don't talk about private life within the company, whether in offices, toilets or corridors.

2. do not show your superiors to your subordinates in front of your colleagues, especially don't show off their personal relationships with their superiors and their families.

3. don't even talk to your colleagues about your past and secret thoughts even in private.

Unless you have left the company, you can make friends with your former colleagues.

4. if a colleague has become a good friend, do not often contact him or her in front of everyone.

Especially when it comes to work, we must be fair and independent.

5. to deal with colleagues who are very fond of asking other people's privacy, they should be polite and courteous. If they do not want to speak, they can say no politely and firmly. They must be resolute against the rumors that hurt their reputation.

If the answer is ingenious, it will not only hurt the kindness of colleagues, but also protect the things that they do not want to talk about.

To protect privacy is to protect ourselves from harm, and secondly to work better.

Of course, there is no need for all kinds of things to be done. All the problems outside the work are silent, so it is easy for people to think you are not reasonable.

Sometimes, you can laugh at yourself with your own personal section, or share your own harmless jokes with others.

1. does your history affect other people's evaluation of your moral character?

2. are some of your distinctive ideas touching some sensitive nerves?

3. is your lifestyle inconsistent with tradition?

4. can your private relationship with your boss become an open secret?

5. when you expose yourself to some private sources on the top of the company, will it bring you obstacles or benefits?